Some people hide their thoughts, because let’s face it, it’s easier! I’ve done it on several occasions. If you speak your truth the chances are you are going to upset someone with your view, but we need YOU as a big thinker to lead the way, to cultivate change with your big new ideas and ‘unfollow’ the crowd vibes. Haters are always going to hate, because they hate themselves. Critics will also criticise, because they are constantly criticising themselves.
Big thinkers are the people in the world who don’t let the small things get them down, they rise with resilience, power and self control.
Are you a big thinker who plays small to accommodate ‘world peace’?
1. The Fear of Judgement Lesson
Big Thinkers don’t let other peoples judgements impact their self esteem, mood or next move. Big thinkers are able to tap into their emotional resilience and see the world through a different lens. Big thinkers see things for what they are and swiftly move on with their lives. They also have this inner knowing and belief that the judgements of others can only impact them, if they are consumed with judging themselves so they choose compassion and self acceptance instead. Remember a hater, comes from a mindset of self hate, this is then projected onto others. So big thinkers of the world will often just say: “Not my circus, Not my monkeys” and swiftly move on with their lives.
2. The Low Self Esteem Lesson
Big thinkers don’t let the world victimise them because of their experiences, they see the world based on the ‘it is what it is’ and move on mindset. If people are hating them and criticising them, then the people doing that clearly have their own issues in the first place. Big thinkers believe that happy people, don’t go around hating on others. They see themselves as worthy of success, and know in their hearts that their success is here to serve the wider community. Big thinkers are emotionally intelligent and they know that if the self esteem is lowered, this has negative impacts in their own world and the world around them. So they choose empowerment with resilience and will look at the bigger of how they can overcome any obstacles that have come their way.
3. The Textbook Lesson
The last thing you will see from a big thinker is that closed mindset where there’s only one way to do anything. Haters and critics you will often find rolling their eyes at this, they believe everyone should do things their way! Yet the Big thinkers of the world know there are many ways to do things and therefore the textbook shizzle is not to be followed to the core. Use it as a guide perhaps but NEVER follow textbook guidance. Big thinkers know that text book guides are the fastest way to kill dreams, inspiration and creativity, all of which makes the human brain unique in ways of powerful thinking. Your brain is not designed to read and follow suit. The human brain is designed to process information, this information is then processed through thought and action. How one person digests that information to another can vary on HUGE scales. So how on earth can a textbook be the ONLY answer?
4. The Family Traditions Lesson
You will not find any big thinkers of the world, quietly following along with ‘what their family said’ without without questioning it. Being a big thinker means the brain is not controlled by others opinions and beliefs, it challenges the way generations have existed, the generational and ancestral beliefs are not what big thinkers want for their lives. Big thinkers will routinely question why their family follow certain traditions and will unapologetically say the big NO! This is what creates haters and critics within family dynamics often with jealousy and insecurity around the ‘one’ that just can’t stay quiet and do as they are told.
5. Authoritive figures Lesson
Ever wondered why people can be so rebellious to authoritive figures? Here’s why… Big thinkers can’t stand being told what to do when the logic says this is not right, their brain just can’t fathom out how / why the injustice is then carried out. Most big thinkers don’t trust people in authority, because those people in authority are generally (depending where they are from) following a set of rules governed by someone of a hierarchy. Here in the UK an example of that would be the police, they can arrest you and detain you with very little reason. It has been known in these situations of power and control for situations to be abused, therefore how can you trust that figure of authority when the position of power is abused. Haters and critics will often have their own views as to why the big thinkers are ‘out of control and not following the rules’ but in most cases the reason is very simple – Lack of trust. Big thinkers won’t under any situation allow haters and critics to keep them quiet. Big thinkers will follow what they believe.
6. The Lesson of positivity
Solutions are available for EVERY situation, big thinkers are usually phenomenal at discovering them. Big thinkers will also be solution focused individuals, because they believe in thinking outside of the box, when you live outside of the box, you will not get sucked in to the dramas of those who are stuck into a closed mindset. Big thinkers simply move away and focus on solutions. They prefer to live in a positive environment where thoughts and feelings are explored but not dwelled on! (Let me know of want to some help. EFT is a game changer for limiting beliefs!). This is where the haters an critics come in with their own opinions and beliefs and criticise big thinkers for the toxic positivity. But… there can only be positive toxicity if the problem is not being addressed.
7. The lesson of: ‘let them hate’ attitude
Big thinkers don’t let haters in, they simply choose to not take it personally and let the haters hate. I mean why not, it’s not as if you have to absorb those thoughts / feelings or beliefs? You can let them go… Big thinkers would rather see the haters as a positive, because let’s face it, you can only hate someone through jealousy or hurt. Both of these are stemmed from love. or the lack of. – It’s NEVER personal.
The final thoughts on this for today. who could you be if you adopted the big thinkers lessons?
Some people will answer this and say: Peaceful
Others will answer this question and say: How can I change my thought process to be more resilient!
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